Hey, I'm going through something really tough and it's not typically a usual thing. First off, I am a lesbian. Which kind of sucks on my part because I can be based as femme, therefore, not really easily spotted by other lesbians out there. In general though, I prefer other femme women, too. I am currently 20 years old and has fallen head-over-heels for one of my professors. I know, this just got weird, right!? I CANNOT help it. It sucks big time, and I wish I could do something about it. I just need some good advice or something because, I go day-by-day thinking about her. It makes me happy sometimes, but most times it causes me to feel depressed. Then it gets a little bit difficult to sleep and just do things. So, I kind of need anyone's help. And what I don't need is negative responses or telling me what is right from wrong, because I know overall this is wrong. But, thank you for stopping by, I can definitely tell you more about my situation, too.
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Really the best thing you can do is start talking to her, become friends and then the relationship will take its own course. Don't feel bad about who you love.
Hopefully she'll get to feeling the same way, but if not, then it will be easier to move on because you know you tried.
I completely agree with Jaybo.
You should definitely try to get to know her more.
Maybe she likes you too! At the very least, you can be friends.
And it is NOT wrong to feel this. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Love has no age, height, hair color, favorite ice cream, etc. requirements. :)
You can't help who you fall for.
Aw, you guys. :) Thank you for the support. I do believe everything you guys are saying. I hope she does like me back..
If she's one of your professors take into consideration that in most educational institutions, dating a student is TOTALLY out of the question and can lead to the person getting fired. So you should make friends with her and get to know her but try to find another outlet for your feelings - try to move on for now, if you can. Once you are no longer a student (not just her student but a student at her institution - it doesnt matter if she is YOUR teacher or not, if she teaches at a place you attend she could still be penalized), by then you guys should know each other pretty well and you may have an opportunity. But sadly, I would say your best advice is move on :(
Yeah, that's a good take on that. I did know this which is the whole reason I am not acting upon anything. I know better then that. Thank you, moving on is going to be difficult. Maybe I'll surprise her in the future after I have graduated. Lol.
Aw, thank you. That's real sweet. Yeah, I shouldn't feel ashamed, but it's hard not to. Thanks, I will definitely see how it goes.