So to make a really long story short, I was on a medication for my depression that made me act like a totally different person than who I really am, and the girl I was dating broke up with me because of the way the medicine made my brain act. Now I am off the medication and have begged her for a second chance, and she said I have 5 days to impress her and if by the end of the 5 day if she is impressed she will go on a date with me. So how can I impress her and show her I'm not the same person I was before without saying over and over again. And I know that some might say there are more fish in the sea to go after but this girl is something special to me for a whole encyclopedia full of reasons. I just need some help so I don't screw this up again.
How can I impress her?
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- 3+ months ago by nickhurbo
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- person, different, depression, story, act, medication, medications, shorts
Responses (2)
Why are you no longer on the medication? Who told you to stop? Did you ever discuss the side effects with the doctor? That was your responsibility. The doctor is not a mind reader and cannot help you or change the medication or the dosage or combine it with something else to keep it under control if you do not provide feedback.
You owe no one proof of anything. When people get married they promise to love each other in sickness AND in health. Granted you two aren't getting married but you would be sadly mistaken if you considered it with someone so lacking in compassion. Your health both physical and psychological is FAR more important than her self-focused requirements.
Frankly, she should have 5 days to prove she has acquired maturity and compassion. Where is her concern over the hell you went through while on that medication? Where is her concern about how she can help you? Where is her concern about going to therapy with you to understand what caused the problem and what to look for to help you in the future? In fact, where is any concern about you at all other than about herself? As far as I'm concerned you don't need to impress her, she needs to become impressive herself because despite your crush she is not impressing me in the slightest.
Good luck!