Ever since I was young my sister hates me. She calls me fat and she curses me all the time. She yells at me all the time. I have considered cutting myself many times, sometimes standing in front of our knife drawer. I can't take it any longer. I do nice things for her and sacrifice so much for her to show her that I love her, but she still hates me. What can I do to get her to love me? She is awful to my mother too. I really need help.
How can I get my sister to like me!?
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- 3+ months ago by HannahTris
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- sister, hate, cutting
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I have an eleven year old brother who does the same thing.
I sacrifice a lot of time and effort into him, and I get called profane names, and punched, and kicked.
He'll try to tease me about anything and everything he can find. In all of reality, I'd kill for him and he'd do the same.
It's normal for siblings to be that way. Trust me.
But I'm going to just put my opinion in there...
Don't literally harm yourself because your sibling is treating you like absolute crap.
It's not going to make you feel better. It's just going to harm you. & Despite how your sibling treats you, making them feel bad isn't going to help either. Either that, or you're going to set an example for them and make them think that harming themselves is okay.
I know this because I harmed myself (I have been a year clean) due to depression and my brother threatens it all of the time when he doesn't get his way. It was because I, not knowing I was, set an example for him that it was okay to self harm and I tell him constantly that it's not okay.