I am a 14-year-old. However, most of my clothes are not what I particularly like.

I tend to like dark clothing with little pattern. However, my mother wants to have me wear floral dresses and bright colors even if I don’t want it. Her reasoning is often that black should only be for funerals and not regular wear. I understand this, however, I would like to be able to wear this color should I want to. My belief is that she still wants me to be her little girl and never grow up, but I would like to wear what I want. When we go shopping she will always go behind me if I have something darker in my hand and will say "Look at this, this is nicer than that."

I don't get an allowance so I can't just buy my own clothing. Also, I can't really get a job so that's out. I would just like to have my own style.

Thank you in advance.