So I am in sixth grade going into seventh grade. I am 12 years old. My girlfriend is going into her freshman year of high school and she's 14. We're already saying we love each other a lot and we've been dating for about a month and a week. We've only hung out twice and we've only kissed three times. She claims that she always has plans and that she can't hang out. She is also saying that she wants to spend a lot of time with her friends because some of them are going to different high schools. She doesn't get that we're not gonna be in the same school either. When i tried bringing all this up with her she called me rude and we started fighting. I hate texting her and never seeing her because now i get awkward talking to her in person. When we make plans and she agrees, the day we were gonna hang out she blows me off and hangs out with her friends! Then i have nothing to do because all my friends are already doing something. I don't want our relationship to be like this, and i don't like talking to her about it because it leads to fights. What do I do?
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If she prefers to hang out with her friend more often than to be with you then I think it's time to dump her. Every weekend!!! I see a problem in the making. I have seen what happens, with many people I know. So what I'm trying to say is that I would give her a taste of her own medicine. And if she doesn't really care about what you are doing you need to find someone that wants to be with you and not someone that wants to just keep you on a string.
