... I have a problem with my parents and my gf. I need an advise about it. First problem is my parents want me to get a job in their city and my gf lives in other city which is become a long distance and she cant handle a long distance. Seconds problem is my parents is a narcissistic kinda parents, it makes me hard to choose my own life, or a career path. To be honest im so lost in this situation, i cant choose what is best for me,what i want in life,i love my parents and my gf,i dont want to disappoint them