My friend is really struggling to pay me back. She owed me about a 1000 and I cut her off 130 so she just owes me 870. She now owes me half of that. The problem is before that happen we fell out and she really did broke my trust but she apologized I forgave her because I know she's not a bad person. I know this was a mistake but she really needed my help bad. She has been paying every 2 weeks and she hasn't paid me for a month. I'm really trying to be understanding because I know time is hard for her and her job is also shutting down so its all bad but at the same time its really hard for me to deal with whenever she's able to pay or not. Idk what to do.
How can I deal with a friend who is struggling to pay me back?
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- 3+ months ago by kristineh...
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- friend, back, deal, friends
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You need to speak to her face to face about this calmly. I'm sure you have gave her enough time as it is and she should not be taking your kind act for granted. The worst thing to do is to fall out with her again, as she could then use it as an excuse for you being a bad friend and not giving her time etc. Let her know you are willing to give her enough time and that you understand if she truly is struggling to pay you back, but as soon as she gets the money she must pay you back. Lesson: be careful who you lend your money to. You may never see it again.