How can I cry? I'm a very tough guy raised in a house where crying was bad. I need help?

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I want to cry to show somebody how much I care for them I'm sad when they are and feel what they feel but when they cry I can't bring my self to it even if I try I'm a cowboy and all that male bravado has made me enable to cry please I need help

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Crying is something that comes naturally, you can't force yourself to cry. If there is ever a bad time were your heart can't take it anymore, you cry. But there is no other way to make yourself cry.

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Try thinking sad things then try
Not to cry

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most times i don't cry. but certain songs, movies or memories can get me to cry. it's not always bad memories. it's memories about people i miss being friends with ect.

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This helps me: i just talk to my pillow about why Im feeling bad just say what totally sucks *** in life and why its unfair and everything and everybody is mean
sometimes it helps to listen to music 
my favorite is mad world by gary jules
hope this helps

How can I cry? I'm a very tough guy raised in a house where crying was bad. I need help?

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