She told me that her parents abused her (her foster parents) her real mom died and her real siblings to. She can’t tell her parents about this she is scared. She told me she tried to end her life twice. I’m scared. Her parents tell her that she is a mistake and that she is worthless. We don’t live close at all. I’m scared really I told her to talk to someone she can’t. She’s to scared. She told me that once she called the cops on her dad for abusing her and she is telling me that the hate her and r still abusing her. PLS HELP ME HELP HER. Thank you
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Did you meet online, or irl?
It is not the first time I've seen such tales. Unfortunately, police seemed just as averse then to implication in domestic matters. As an online friend (I presume), your influence is limited other than for records of detail in case of inquiry, and as one in whom she confides. Know your place, don't torment yourself over helplessness. Don't be discouraged nor aggressive - she needs to reach out to any adult in her life whom she trusts as reliable, be it a teacher, priest, uncle / aunt, neighbour or any other individual. It establishes credibility when others are in the know, even if not witnesses per se.
Hi. No I did not meet her online. I became friends with her from camp. She told me she has no body. Her real parents and real siblings died when she was born. It hurts me a lot i don’t live in the USA but she does. She is getting an abortion today. She tried to kill her self 2 times. And I’m scared that it will happen. Her foster parents are extremely abusive. They tell her almost everyday that She is a disgrace. I want to help her but I don’t know how to.
Hello, bella.
I see - are you in another continent, or country, then? It poses additional challenge; the interpol has the authority over cooperation, but at best they'll prolly just contact the fbi & local police which is risky.
Yes, I read these details on the post, about losing her family and suicidal tendency - that is why I believe it's crucial to establish / rely on / discover whatever other connections she might have, rather than lacks.
If you are around her age, you should consult with your parents. I don't know how your relationship with them is, but if they're supportive (even whilst possibly disagreeing with your conviction), it will be beneficial, possibly insightful.
It might not seem like much, but having a friend in such dark times is important. Even if ostensibly your words can't seem to reach very deep.
I realise it might sound unreal, difficult to accept, but that's how it works from afar: through subtlety.
If you'd like to go into more detail, or listen to more people's opinions on this, you're welcome to visit help-qa . com.
Thanks. Yeah she is in a different country than I am. It’s hard I wish I was there to help her. She doesn’t deserve any of this. No body does. I just hope it will get better. All ur comments helped me. Thank you
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