divorced in 2002, but she has remarried also, keeps interfering in our life. First off she encouraged her daughter to play up (15yr old madam) and when that did not work she then sent anonymous mail to my husbands friends, family and work mates, giving them information about me. She had sat on this information for 4 months, and never mentioned about it to my husband, (who knew anyway) but she figured she would do as much damage as possible. If she had concerns about her children being with me, surely any NORMAL mother would raise it with the childrens father, but she chose not to do this. She left my husband with £50k worth of debt, and walked away without paying a penny, but has told the daughter it was the other way round. Despite despising(by her own admission) her ex, she continues to use his name as opposed to her new married name - WHY??? I know her new married name is not as nice as my married name, but she still calls herself MRS M......! She continues to cause trouble, should we tell the police about the harassment, sending malicious mail is a criminal offence, or should we tell her new husband just what she is like. Any ideas.