... reason of the break up. I told him to break up. Then 1 month later I called him and told him i needed him so much and that I love him. And sorry, I was angry at the time when I said to break up. He ignored me. Yesterday I went to his workplace to talk. He said there's no way for us to be together and that he is dating another girl. Today I went to the park we used to go there a lot. And wrote an sms, telling him about where I was and that I needed him to come to the park to talk. He switched off his phone. A couple of minutes later I saw him with a girl holding hands and with flowers. I cried out loud. He didn't expect me to be there. It was such a pain. He came to me and he was very rude. He said everything is over. Then they went holding hands, I shouted his name a couple of times. He came back to me. I bend on my knees, saying sorry for breaking up.. Then he said If I disturb him once again, he will tell my family, my father all about this. I was crying. He left. Now I'm shocked, I don't know what to do, I love him
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He is not willing nor ready to deal with you. Leave him alone - if you force yourself on him it will make things worse and I do not think you want that!
You need to let go and move on - yes it is hard, BUT the only way to get over the hurt is to focus on yourself and keep busy with things that make you happy.
dear u need to move on.... by constantly asking i to come back n all he may get annoyed... you love him bt now u hav to move on it wl b tuf initialy bt then u will b habituated.... as helen said i wl say d same thing u just need to concentrate on ur self n kep urself busy n try not to think about him.... its tough bt it is not impossible...:(
best of luck dear....:(
yeah i knw dat you will get dis kinda feelings right now dat u want to wait for him, he is d one n all dat but dear its time to move on...
otherwise there will be a time in future wen u will realise u wasted the precious time of ur life by waiting for him...
m not telling that he will never come back to u bt dear begging, crying, letters are not solutions.... some times you have leave things the way they are n if they come back they are meant to be...
I don't want to think about living my life without him... I get frightened of that thought. I'm thinking that if it's true love, I need to struggle. Now I'm sure about my feelings and that I want to get married with him. Why not to struggle? I'm thinking about writing a letter to him, explaining the situation and also asking him to act as his heart tells, not his brain. I know he loves me, but he is disappointed in me. I want to ask him not to marry his new girlfriend that he doesn't love. I'm so desperate.
Also I know that he is so much angry with me, maybe he even won't read my letter.:( But I feel i need to fight for my love.