My dad is Chinese and he has this family tradition mentality while my mom is a struggling Christian who makes sense of the world through western mannerisms. Their different views in life constantly come to heads and there's a lot of arguing with my brother, who has quit college and has resorted to Amway, while he does not learn to clean up after himself. All of this bitterness has allowed me to understand at a young age how careful I need to be to develop a healthy mental attitude in order to do well in the world. I am still humble by letting myself learn from my parents' lessons, but I want to help them develop healthier attitudes. Despite the fact that my parents are nearing their 50's, I refuse to believe that it is too late for them to change. I am trying my best to understand them and I have recently been on very good terms with them. Cleaning and organizing the house is no problem for me. Every now and then, I try to talk to them about how important it is to have an attitude of positivity and bravery and a love of learning, but they rarely listen fully to what I say and usually forget later on. If you have any advise on how to get them to listen to each other instead of forcing their beliefs upon each other and my brother and sister, I would greatly appreciate it