... around 7 1/2 months but have known each other for about 5 years in the past. He has 2 ex girlfriends and two kids (one to each ex). I get along great with the kids and my partner is happy that i can connect with them the way i do. The problem is, both of his Ex Girlfriends wont let him see his kids very often, he hasn't seen his son since October 2014 and hasn't seen his daughter for roughly about 2 months now. They both give him hell and constantly put him down either by calling him names or saying terrible things (don't get me wrong he retaliates back) and also give him crap about his parenting skills saying he is a terrible father. He has openly said to me and both ex's that if he inst going to see his kids on a regular basis then he inst going to pay any child support. When he had his first girlfriend had a child together he broke up not long after with the mother of his child and ended up dating another girl a while after and obviously she fell pregnant with his daughter. He had dated both of them for around 3 years and obviously didn't work out. When he met his second girlfriend and mother to his daughter he was seeing his son a lot more (50/50) because his ex girlfriend and girlfriend at the time got along great! Now that we are dating and we are going strong , no relationship problems at all, i feel like i may be the reason he doesn't get to see his kids often like he used to. I have met both of them and get along friendly with them (because i have to) but i feel like i may be the big problem. is there anything i could do ?? I absoulutley adore and love him and don't want things to end but im thinking do i end things so he can see his kids more because his 2 ex's don't seem to like me and are punishing him or can i help out with child support to make them both happy.....
Thanks :)