okay so i liked this guy for 3 months and he likes me too. its been going really good and of course we have our ups and downs. but a few days ago, he was talking about this other girl and he made up a word that means "shes hot." i got really worried and talked to him about it. he said just because he made up that word doesnt mean he likes that girl. i was fine and everything was fine until two weeks later i overheard him and his friends. all i heard was "yah, (my crush) likes (other girl)!" my crush walked away with a smirk on his face. yet he didnt shake his head no or tryed to tell him he didnt. that scared me so much. then later the same day my friend told me my crush asked her if she would interview the other girl for him.now i really think that he likes the other girl and not me. the other girl is wayyy prettier than me. thats probably why he does. does he like this girl? and does he not really like me just says he doesnt?? what is going on? and what should i do about it?
Hes lying isnt he?
Added 3+ months ago:
more than one answer is appreciated. :)
Added 3+ months ago:
oh i forgot! im in 5th grade sooo yah none of this "dating" crap because we are to young for that.
Answers (2)
You've pretty much figured it out. He doesn't love you. When's the last time he said he loved you and actually meant it? In my opinion, you should (in person), tell him that you're leaving him. At this point you can determine if you will forgive him.
If he shows signs that he doesn't want to break up and he's really upset, then you should forgive him...after a while.
If he just says, "yeah okay, lets break up", then obviously he doesn't love you.
Good then whats the problem? Dump him cause you know what he could do to you with another girl.
thx i actualy already talked to that girl and she said she thinks he is a totall jerk. she says she would neverlike him.