I was playing an online game, and i met a guy on there, we got to know each other really well, and we have alot in common, he lives in England, and im in Australia, we both like each other, and we ask eachother questions eg. if you were trapped on an island who would you want to be trapped with. He always says me, he is 18 and im 14, we both know the age difference and it doesnt seem to faze us. On the game, he is always going *hugs her* *kisses her cheek* He can be really sweet, and i really do like him. But there is one problem, i have a boyfriend already -_- He knows this, and he is always saying i hope it lasts a long time, and sometimes he will say, oh damn thats rigth, too bad. Please help if you have questions bout anymore details, ask in comments. I need help ASAP.
Help! This is important, Love issues -_-?
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- 3+ months ago by Anonymous
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Added 3+ months ago:
Also, he has started calling me pet names, such as sweetie, cutie, honey. We both have talked bout issues (eg. deppression) and we have both even helped each other out really well. (one thing that got us close, was that i stopped him from suicide -_- )
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he is not really serious - I am sure he thinks you are very sweet - but he is in England (very very far away) and you are only 14. Long distance anything is very very hard and can be quite frustrating so don't go there. You have a boy friend and this guy is only a flirtatious fantasy which you can enjoy but please don't get wrapped up in it!
Have you ever met / talked to the guy? People online a very different from what they are in person. Until you meet him and spend real time together there's no way of knowing what is going to be. His personal habits might annoy the heck out of you. Enjoy the flirtation but please it's nothing more than that. Sorry I know that's not what you wanna hear but it is what it is.
he has told me almost everything bout him, from his likes dislikes, health, and mental health, he has told me that he has health conditions in his chest, and he has trouble controling his temper, i used to have a friend like that and i know how to deal with it, so im fine with it.
You didn't answer my question so I guess the answer is no you have never met him nor have you ever really
talk to him. How do you really know he is who he is? It is easy to become someone else.... a lot of predators online and you are a child- even if you don't think so. Please be very careful it can become very dangerous and fast.
i am being careful, we have talked heaps for 5 hours at a time for the past week, we dont plan on meeting each other time soon.
He found somebody with a kind heart like you. Which he needed ... but this does not have a relationship make. He is drawing you in and that is what really concerns me. Please Tell a parent, I friend someone you trust that you talking to this guy.
we arnt going to start anything serious any time soon, we are just seeing how it goes, and figure things out.
dis guy is flirting with you... just a time pass nothng else.... nd u hv a bf r8... dnt think abt ne one.... nd as said by helen i completely agree with her.... long distance relationship are damn tough its nid lots of effort to make a long distance relationship work... n ur jus 14 u hav a long life ahead.... enjoy your life n love as he is with you...
and dnt jus wash away wat dat guy says.... he might be flirting with others in this way....
like i said up^ im good with long distance relationships -_-
Trust me that's what most of us think too - reality is different. When you can touch / feel / spend time with the person you care for it is the worst feeling ever which in the long term is not sustainable. It hurts too much.
evry one says dis dear.... wen u wl b in dis situation u wl understand better.... i too was in a long distanse relationship for 3 years.... its damn tough m teling u....
I didnt ask this question for people to say that long distance is hard, i know it is, and im fine with it. and i need to know what to do, cause he is falling more and more for me.
i know, but im acutally pretty good with long distance, plus the relationship with my boyfriend is going downhill (not related to the other guy at all)