There's this girl in my PE class who thinks we are best friends! (Btw, im a girl too) She always calls us "besties"! The problem is I don't like her. I'm not her enemy or anything, but she's not my type to be with. What really bugs me is she tries to force me to come over and talk to some girls that she thinks like her but they don't. To do this she will physically drag me over by the arm. She is not aware even after I have told her I don't want to that I don't want to do whatever she wants me to do at the moment. I have a friend in my class who I've told that she is annoying and she thinks so, too. She is making me uncomfortable and I dont want everyone to think we are best friends because they think she is wierd. So what should I do? I don't want to do anything to talk with the teacher if possible and nothing to make her mad at me. Help!
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It is good that you're still concerned of her feelings that she might get mat if you tell her directly what you feels. I think that what you need to settle is the root cause which is why she's not your type. Maybe you can think about her negative traits and tell her to fix it so that not only you but other people can now get along with her. In that way, you can help her also.
Send a note to her, and try to let her stop. I recommecend asking a teacher, or a school couslour to help solve the problem. On the otherhand do everything you can to make her stop. I think you should hit her to give her a warning, otherwise she has no friends and she thinks your a good one.
Thanks, but if I were to hit her, she would probably do a "sad dog" look and ask why I did that. Plus, I'm not the type of person to hit someone.
First there is jorhig wrong wih being wierd, but if this person is forcing you to do things you dont want to do look her in the eyes and say stop firmly, she probly thinks you are friends because you are nice to her or she does not have many frinds,but do not let her force you to do anything if she drags you pull her arm of and hold your ground. I hope some of this works
Okay