So I've been sleeping with this guy for about 7 months and he told me the other week he slept with this other girl. Mind you all three of us live in different cities. I have stalked her Facebook, I can tell that she really likes him and she has no idea that he's sleeping with me. Should I sent her a private message and tell her that he's sleeping with me just so she knows and hope she doesn't tell him? Or should I just leave it. It's annoying because she comments on every single one of his photos being like all in love. It's actually getting ridiculous, she thinks she's the only one but little does she know.. The other night he sent me messages telling me how much he missed me then he slept with her the same night. What should I do?
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Okay, to be honest with you here this guy sounds pretty manipulative to me. He's been sleeping with you for several months, whether you two have labeled it as an official relationship or not, there should still be respect for your feelings there, if not honesty. He sleeps with this other girl but comes back to you saying how much he misses you? It sounds like he's just using you at this point, and you both should have the right to know and get away from this guy because you two deserve much much better.
In all I say tell her, and really figure out if you want this guy in your life.