hi my bf is one yr younger than me.. we r together for two yrs.... he is very sweet and nice and he worked really hard to be with me i met his family and then i felt so uncomfortable they r very different and his mom hates me and i see that.. now i'm not sure of wt i want or wt should i do i dont feel i love him the same and lately i'm feeling that i'm interested in meeting other guys which is sth i can never do coz i cant cheat on him help plz wht to do.... sometimes i feel that i lovre him but other times i feel that i want to run away... i dont wanna do sth and regret later
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Help - should I break up with my bf?
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age difference is nothing in love and it does not matter who is younger and who is elder n yeah that guy loves you n now a days it is tough to get a loving and affectionate person... but again if you are confused with your relationship you can take a break... tok to your boyfriend about this...
The guys are right age makes no difference. When i started working, i was bricking myself thinking i would not meet people of my age group, to date. But i discovered if you like someone you like someone, so it doesn't matter about the age group.
Now taking a break is ok but its got a catch.
Having a break pros: gives you space and time, to breath from one another. Allows you to do things without being burdened from the relationship. But the both of you must want this.
Having a break cons: If one party wants this, it leaves the other person, waiting and hoping. You end up leaving the person hanging on to that relationship. And thats not fair, because they also need to live, grieve and move on.
Talk to him, tell him these problems, and see if you can work this out. Making him wait for you on a break if cruel if he doesn't want this, you need to take the sweet with the sour; to work it out or finish it. (Sorry if this comes across as blunt or aggressive, i don't mean it to be)
