Hi there. Please can someone give me some advice. My son has been kik trolled by this girl in Finland. She has manipulated him with lies, claiming to be being bullied and beaten, sometimes when they were speaking. I know this doesn't sound real, but it affected him badly. I've found out who this girl is from the photos she sent him. What i'd like to know is should i contact her, or name her so she can see what she's doing to people. She has made threats to harm herself and that's the bit that has affected him. I really believe he had feeling for her. I have made him delete KIK and told him he is not to try and contact her, hopefully he will listen. Any advice would be really welcome, but please sensible answers only. Many thanks x
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I would do exactly as you plan. You are trying to be a responsible and loving mother. I had an experience quite similar to this, personally. My mom, however thought the guy was going to kill himself, so she told me to be nice to him, and not break up with him. You see, he had been a friend beforehand. Yeah, right. Would a friend humiliate you and try to turn everyone against you? Even your own bloody teachers? Now, I hope to never communicate with him again. It's been however, impossible to do. I live in a very small town, so I can't not see his family. Which I must admit, I want to avoid doing at all costs. This girl, sounds like she's just wanting everyone to be drug down with her, to her own pity-party and wants your son to take care of her for the rest of his life. Believe you me, it does get better. Soon, after time has passed, hopefully, she'll be some distant memory. Actually though, I would report it to KIK and let them know that she's a suicidal threat.
Hi. Thanks for your reply. What worries me is that if I confront this girl, although she lives in a different country, then she might do something to hurt herself. I just wish she hadn't done this to my son. She's really affected him and it's going to take a long time to put right. You are very kind answering my question, I appreciate being able to talk to someone about it. Thank you.