I am in a relationship with a guy who i really love and want to be with but i have been having thoughts about my bestfriend, we grew up together and fell in love at a young age , we have always been comfortable, and last year we had broke up due to him having trouble being committed to only me. After i met a guy who made me feel crazy about him..but i dont think he can give me everything i need for me and my daughter...i cant be comfortable around him like i can be with my first love. I just cant decide who i need or want to be with. He was amzing with my daughter they were like bestfriends too. And now this new guy , idk why im with him , i get second thoughts...Help Please??
Help! Need Advice!?
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- 3+ months ago by AdriannaJ...
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I was in love with my best friend from childhood too.. until he went off the deep end. If I can say anything it's don't go back with the best friend. However, the fact that you are thinking about your ex and clearly stated "I can't be comfortable around him. I get second thoughts" is a good indicator that this new man is not the one for you either.
Take it from someone who has been in nearly the exact same position as you have described. Someone will come along who will make you completely forget about your first love and who will fill that hole in your heart. You won't long for that man anymore. But from the way it sounds, I don't think either one of them is your soul mate. Just basing that off of my experiences. It's a tough position to be in, but with a little daughter in the mix, I would be careful with what you choose, because it affects her life as well. Sometimes being single and waiting is the best decision.. it's what I did and I met the love of my life a year later.