... once. He is always screaming on me and accusing me of saying things or doing things in the past that i never did. He always punches everything around him (walls, the floor,etc.). Yesterday, he even threw his new macbook one the floor. He tells me that he loves me (no lie it's scary, sometimes i feel like he is obsessed with me) He always wants to see me and gets mad whenever I say i don't believe in marriage , although I do want to have kids in the future. He wants me to marry him(did i mention i just turned 18?) I don't know what to do I do love him and i am a fool for that but my mom is my best friend and i can't tell her about this. I dont know for the first time of my life I would like people to tell me what to do
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i agree to that
I would also call the police cause if he is dangerous (you said he punches things....) he might come after you for "revenge" on breaking up with him.
Please PLEASE let me know how it goes.
I'm here to help
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commit suicide? you're crazy! Never commit suicide over a guy
I would do what helen151 said. Also, even though its REALLY hard to tell your mom, you MUST tell her. She can help and if he comes over, she can kick him out and say you're currently in Maine or some other state on a tour with your aunt. Sounds sensible. (like i commented on helen151's comment, call the police.) if he's throwing punches at everything.....who's to say HE won't go after another girl too?
Tell your mom, or someone! You'd probably be surprised how understanding your mom might be, she only wants the best for you and will be your biggest support and wisdom. You can't do this alone. Do not make that mistake.
Everyone is right (most of them) this is an abusive relationship and will only get worse and more abusive. The statistics prove this. Get out of it and do it soon, do not do it alone, have support and once it's done, DO NOT GO BACK. Google abusive relationships, read about some of the other experiences of women that have been trapped in this type of relationship, the signs to watch out for.
Sometimes, love is not enough or right. Be safe....Be strong.
thank you very much for replying i will do my best to get out of this