im 17 and engaged to my boyfriend for 5 months im getting married in march 2 weeks after my 18th however the only thing is i dont want to marry him because im in love with another guy but i also love my current boyfriend but in a different way, my boyfriend can sometimes get quite violent so how do i tell him that the wedding is off with out ending up in a coffin
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dear friend...there is nothing better to do than just call it quits...as early as today, you can ask him out and explain why you're cancelling the wedding...just say that you changed your mind and not try to hurt the guy by your 'truthfulness'...just say you aren't ready...you see, the consequences that might arise after marriage is probably there would be no peace at home...infidelity might take place in the extreme, but, you can prevent it from happening by calling it off right now...a dinner would do the trick...never sacrifice your future...if you think you can be happy with someone else, why jump the cliff..?...best way is to seek God first for better answer so that your current boyfriend will understand ...God bless..!
If he is violent you must get out of the relationship. You are both so young and you have only seen the tip of the iceberg. There are organizations in your area that can help you, domestic violence hotlines, shelters, etc, all free. And what about your parents? Are they a support to you? You deserve to be safe, happy, and healthy. Take care of yourself.