Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half now , actually more than that ! And we have done everything except for sex , not like we havnt tried we have tried , but I'm never the one whose keen on doing it . I try n avoid it but he can't seem to keep his hands off me . I love him and he loves me ( as per what he says ) but now that he talks to his friends and all of them kind of make fun of him for waiting to long . So he's got this thing in his mind and now he pressurises me. If I say no or try n avoid it he say he doesn't want it anymore nor does he want me . We keep fighting for the same reason . I don't know what to do , go in for it ! Plus I feel that when we are doing it he forgets about me lying over there he doesn't listen to me is he in the flow of it or I don't really matter to him its just that he wants to have sex that's all ! Please help me out ! And ya I am or rather was a virgin
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He is using you for sex, that 's what he wants,he is not the one.leave him and don't even look back!he doesn't deserve you,you are not ready and you dont want so you dont have to do it,he can't force you!
There is lots of guys out there!look for the one.
Maybe you will feel bad and pain for the break up but u shouldn't.
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