..Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 3 years and recently he broke up with me and he told me he couldn't progress with me because I wasn't making efforts to be ambitious . The whole summer I have tried to get back him and I even lied to him about something which I regret and recently he told him he was cnsdering getting back together with me until I lied so I guess I broke his trust . I really want him back he and I are trying to be friends because every time we try to give each other space he or me contacts each other and go back talking to each other and acting like nothing happened . what should I do I really love him and I just want to start over fresh what should I do ?
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Don't push to get back together let him know that you love him very much and give each other space if y'all both miss each other y'all will find your way back together if not move on and be friends and if y'all decide to be just friends something may progress into a new relationship don't beg for him back and don't lie and don't sit around and wait for him either because if says that he may wanna get back together he could already be talking to someone or is just getting your hopes up and ends up breaking your heart it's not good for either one of you the way y'all are doing it go out have some fun and if he says your not being ambitious you go and you do you don't sit and wait around waiting for him to take you back during time you could be having fun meeting someone else also don't "chase" him trying to get him back because he could be just stringing you along messing with your heart knowing that you are waiting and do whatever to get him back when he sees you moving on and doing you he will more then likely be jealous of you. So just tell him you love him and you wanna be with him give each other some space and if you truly love each other you will find your way back to each other if not move on and do you and definitely DONT change yourself to please him
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