I do not really have much of a question but I need to talk to someone. I been in a relationship for about 4 years. I really cared about this guy. Yet, he cheated on me a few times. He told me he didn't love me. Now we are on summer vacation and he been talking to another girl. I found out and I confronted him and he is like i don't know what you are talking about.. But she was telling him she loves him.. I feel stupid and he's like do you wanna break up and I didn't know what to say. He has now blocked me on all his social media. I really am so hurt. I don't know what to do. I need someone to talk too cause as of right now I am so confused. I don't know how to move on and be happy. I don't know how to tell him, I'm sorry. I just I need some direction. I don't really have a lot of friends, so I guess I'm using you guys as a friend. Please just help me.
Help me find direction?
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- 3+ months ago by Iloveryou2
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- direction, year, talk, guys, relationship, question, years, guy, relationships
Responses (2)
I realize you care a great deal about this guy, sometimes it's very hard to let go of someone you care so much for. So we tend to allow guys to treat us like crap just because we fear we may loose them. This guy does not know your worth or he would not treat you this way. You asked for direction so I am willing to help you out :) I am always a nice person so do not think I am being mean ;) I have been through what you are going through right now so I understand . Dump this guy !! You will one day find a guy that is close to perfect for you. This guy does not care and I'm sorry for that, we all experience heartache . A guy that cheats does not respect his partner. In a relationship you need love, respect , honesty , trust and so on. You do have the strength to tell this guy, you need to respect yourself more than you respect him. Once you realize you deserve better , you will not have any problem telling this guy to hit the road . And trust me sweetie, once you get to that place, you will feel fantastic , not confused , not sad , that big weight on your shoulders will be gone ! I really hope my advice helps you out ;) If you fear this guys reaction , if you have anyone close to you to stand by your side should you decide to break up with him, that's proven to help also.;) best of luck ;)
you seem to like this guy ... but it seems to me as if he is an a hole ...... dump him and find a better guy... he obviously doesnt like you .. so why stick with him.... i am really sorry .... my best advice is to get rid of him and find a better guy who likes you for you and that will care for you