I am worried about my nether region. I am a 21 year old female, and my inner labia is longer than my outer labia and the region is darker than the rest of my body. It is hanging out of the outer lips. I am extremely conscious of it and for a long time didn’t let my boyfriend see me down there. Recently while getting physical he finally saw it. He commented that “Whoa. This is… kinda different. I didn’t imagine it this way.” This only made me more conscious. I have been troubled by this since. He again commented one day that my inner labia is long and something that he has never seen and that why is it this way? I really don’t know if this is normal. Is this kinda labia normal
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The problem is not your labia. It's your boyfriend's temerity in saying something that undermines your self-confidence. His lack of understanding that his words were not loving or accepting and ultimately hurtful.
I think you should love your body and all its parts and not love a boyfriend who doesn't.
All labia do not match and if you click on "gallery" in the article there are examples.
http://www.labialibrary.org.au/your-labia/are-my-labia-normal/
http://www.yourplasticsurgeryguide.com/other-procedures/labiaplasty.htm
The problem isn't with you but media . By that is most nude pictures are of women who aren't showing there inter vagina lips . It to the point where women even teenage girls young teen girls are having surgery to remove there inter lips. If your boyfriend keep making comments. Tell him you are a healthy beautiful women. There are millions of women in the world with a vagina just like you have it's not abnormal or unusual. Not every woman vagina the same or look the same. Do not stress over it or worry about it. You just fine as you are.