Ok so i'm a junior in high school just starting a new school that I moved too. When I got here I fured guys would be gettin at me like crazy kuz i was "the new girl" & everything. But that doesn't seem to be happening as much as I thought it would. Its A big school and i got my eye on someone that doesn't seem to notice me when i look at him. I haven't said anything to him or approached him yet because whenever i see him he's with his friends or we're in a big crowd. I don't know what to do ..he's not making any moves and I'm trying to but i have no clue what to say to him when i see him! advice please ? more than one answer would be nice.
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im in 5th grade so this might not help as much but i like a girl in my class too. she all ready has a 'boyfriend' but i no the guy shes dating and i dont think they fit together very well but back to your problem. first r u funny? can u make him laugh? this is your BEST weapon. im the most popular kid in my school because of my sense of humor. second deos he have a girlfriend? if he does, respect that by not getting to close to him when shes around. third. is he popular? if so then he might be always crowded by his friends
but sinse ur new, u wont always be crowded so that makes things a whole lot easier. i know from other experience saying "will u go out with me" is really hard to do. i havent done it yet. u are a lot older than me so u might have more courage to say it. im just hoping my crush will break up with her BF and ask ME out. it is never, NEVER that easy.
hope this helps!
hey Rose, you are asking the classic question. are you in any classes with this guy? if so,then a question about what is going on with a homework assignment is a good approach. It is called an ostensible question. What you are really saying is I am interested in you. of course, most guys are a bit slow so you may have to be persevering