I am currently a sophomore in college, in a 5 year major and go to a college close to home so commute there. I have never been happy here, feeling like I am missing out on the college experience and struggling to meet the GPA requirements of my major after a tough first semester. Also being a commuter I feel left out because the dormers stick together while the commuters literally just go home when done with class. My junior year I would really like to transfer colleges and have 3 in mind. One is fairly close to home but I would still have to live there and the other two are about 2 hours away. One of the two hour away one's one of my best friends and my boyfriend of 2.5 years go to. I know that it's wrong to transfer colleges solely to be closer to your boyfriend, but this college has a good major for me to go into to still finish within the 5 years. (the other 2 hr away would take a total of 6) Being away from him has been tough but it is bearable because we visit each other quite often so I'm not just switching because I can't stand being away from him. My best friend and boyfriend are also both a year younger than me so I don't want people to think I am following them, even though they have both told me multiple times they would love if I came there. I'm scared to leave home because I am super close to my family, but I also will never get these years back and for how much money is spent on college I feel like I should be happy. If I choose the school they go to I'm scared of what his parents will think, though mine just want me to be happy. I also think the transition would be easier because transferring junior year can be tough because a lot of people already made friends and live in apartments. If I went to their school I'd have people to live with and the comfort of knowing them when making friends becomes difficult. I am really leaning towards their school for this reason. Is it a bad idea or totally crazy to want to go there? please help.