I'm really confused and need some advice. I'm 37f and am meeting an old friend in Cabo in 2 weeks. We have a past but never a romantic one. I've known him for 18 years. When we first met I was in my early 20's and was in total lust with him for years. He never reciprocated, but did play MANY head games. He was kind of a douche bag. We have kept in touch here and there over the years. I moved to SoCal and he is still in S.F. He's been married and now divorced for a while. ANYWAY.....I'm having a hard time and need to get away. He and I were texting back and forth and he said he was going to Cabo with a buddy.....long story short, he says that his friend is leaving on Friday, so I should come down Thursday thru Sunday. I say great, let me look at flights etc. I look up the hotel he's staying at and it is really expensive. I text him saying, holy crap that place is bank. He then replies....huh? No, you would stay with us/him, I got a 1br. Soooooo.....here is my question (finally)...do you think he's thinking plutonic, my friend from ages and I are going to hang out...or am I FINALLY going to conquer Mt. Everest (so to speak)? And if he IS just thinking on the friend level, what do I do to make him think otherwise and make the first move.