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It is my 30th in December and one of my oldest, best friends confirmed she was coming (she lives locally and I arranged the gathering in august!). Just last week we were talking about my 30th and she said she had a wedding that day - I was surprised and assumed it was a family member if hers. She then said it was the wedding of a colleague of her partner, who she has only met once, and they are only invited to the evening do. She confirmed she would speak to her partner and as she couldn't miss my 30th. I then receive a text saying she away going to the wedding, and that she would like to go out with me the weekend before.
I am hurt, but I keep thinking I am too old for all this and don't want to fall out with her, but I also think she is being poor. What would you do, do I just not say anything or do I risk falling out with her by saying I am shocked?
Thanks
