The movie it's old I don't know when it came out maybe before I was born, the story goes something like this the father has to go to war or leave, so the mother and the two sons stay I think it took place in London (not sure) the kids grow up but the father seems that he never return so the mother has to do stuff I think she even sleeps with a guy for a place to stay, the older kid start working as a mail man, he falls in love with a girl, but later on she dies I think she was sick but don't know of what I think she knew, the guy were they live keeps abusing her mother so he decide to leave jus like his father and he starts to drink and come like to home, the mother one night tells him if his going to be like his father. I can't remember more but I hope is usefull and some one helps me Plis I want to see this movie again but don't know the name I think it was in London or ireland either one I can't remember the ending think I didn't finish it