Basically I had this crush on a guy I'm at school with, he thought I liked him so sent me a message saying he really likes me, I told him that I liked him too but I wasn't ready for a boyfriend right now, before he actually sent me this I had heard that he liked me and I was so happy and excited even after his message I was happy but something was making me feel sort of sad, I've been not speaking to him as much in school and something has just put me right off him(I don't no what) but I thought by not talking to him as much he'd begin to like someone else but instead he texts me every night for AGES and although this is a lot of girls dream, it's not the way I like things , I like my personal time with family etc and even if you have a boyfriend I feel you don't need to text each other all day if one of you has plans even just a simple how are you is fine for me . My friends say I'm twisted and I'm looking for a 'bad boy' but that's not the case. I don't want to say anything to him but how do I stop this without having to ignore his messages (as I feel bad) or having to say anything mean to his face before it goes any further
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Simple,,,,,,,,,just respond to his messages like you're passive like,,,, "Mmm,Mmm hmmm, lol, nice, ugh" and don't reply in full sentence coz that would trigger his interests,,,,,,,,,,just act less active and one of the following two scenarios might happen
1# he would lose interest in you
2# he would come straight to your face asking "hey what's wrong"( if it happens just say you're normal)
Please don't think I'm involving too much, but, "don't loose this guy in future", I mean I understand it's not the time for you to get in relationship,but someday in future if you need a relationship, please do consider this guy. And most importantly don't say anything straight on his face, coz that would break his heart.
Be happy, make happy