My friend of seven years has stopped talking me, there's been no reason, we haven't had any fights at all, we've been very close, but, It's been months, I texted him just a three days ago to talk to him, I asked him how he was he said. "Fine, and you?" I told him good, and asked him why he hasn't been talking to me, I told him If It had something to do with his girlfriend, he could tell me. But he hasn't replied...His girlfriend really hates me, and I don't even know her, the last time we spoke a lot was in December. He told me how his girlfriend didn't like me, just because he told me things he wouldn't tell her, she said that he needed to stop talking to me...so, I guess he chose her over me, what's something I can do, to get him back as a friend or to get over, move on, and find new friends. So...Is are friendship over? Oh and they have been on and off for the past two years, so he used to come to me and speak about what she said to him and everything. I hope that helped you better understand this.
He hasn't talked to me in months..Until now?
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- 3+ months ago by Lonelygir...
- Topics:
- close, friend
Responses (3)
Well, I would text him or something, and be like, "You can trust me and tell me anything, you know. Your girlfriend shouldn't be able to tell you who you can and can't talk to. Plus, I'm your friend." Or something to help him understand that he has the freedom to talk to you, even when his girlfriend says he can't. It's not like having a girlfriend means not having any female buddies besides her.
Hi there, I'm a guy by the way I made that mistake of telling this girl we couldn't be friends bc my X now at that point my GF she didn't want me talking to her bc there where rumors that she and I we did sumthing which wasn't true which now I wish it was jus to shut her mouth, now it has being 4 months my X and I we broke up, and so I miss more that friend than my X, I even send her friend request lately after three years and so months I so regret the day I told her we couldnt talk any more, I regret it will all my heart, I jus wish this guy dosnt make the same mistake too u, hope it works for the best vote and add me if u will like. Remember if he dosnt want chu I do
oh yea ps - if he does chooses her over u, u know you deserve better and be happier.