in the second month my fiance and i were dating he cheated on me with a married woman. we moved to another state and when we returned the woman saw me with him and got angry and said they had a one time affair. and it was around the same time i cheated on him with my ex but i told jim i did. but everytime i ask him did he do it he says no and gets mad at me for asking but I KNOW HE DID. but i did as well. i dated he and my ex at the same time. we are now frriends i know he is not the cheating type but he knew this woman before he met me and i guess when he and i had some small issues he turned to her and had sex with her. i found out like 6 months later and i dont know what to do. it bothers me in my sleep. i feel like i will never be able to move forward until he comes out with the truth or i just let iy go. but how do i do that? i was thinking about asking him the day before our wedding day.
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This is a bit of a twister but this is how I see it...
You cheated and you were honest about it I know but also just because this woman says they had a one night stand doesnt make it true, but if you are completely sure he did it and you want the truth then just tell him " how can you move forward into a marriage if he cant be honest and speak to you about his mistakes"
The biggest mistake you can make is to attack him listen to what he has to say