I have only know him for 4 days. So I've been talking to this guy like 4 days and it was my birthday yesterday and he got me some expensive perfume. I don't know what to think. I thought it was sweet but is there a reason should I be worried? Help
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It is very sudden. Does he seem like a romantic person? Perhaps he thought it would impress you and would make you want to go out with him. If you feel creeped out then slowly distance yourself from him for a while then see how you feel about it. If he seems genuine and kind then he did it because that's who he is. It can be hard to judge, talk to a close friend who knows him also and see how you feel :)
Yes, you should be concerned. You can accept it or return it and say that is too much too soon.
Guys who rush relationships are sometimes hiding a dark side and that can be controlling and or abusive. I'm not saying he is but flowers from the grocery store would have been better.
You can Google signs of a controller or abuser and you'll see what I'm saying.
Happy Birthday!
Absolutely not. It might be one of his first relationships. He is worried as well and wants to make you like him. He doesn't want to look like a chep guy, he wants to make a good impression on you, he might be still inexperienced in dating and trying his best to make a good impression.
The answer above said he is hiding a dark side and is abusive. This is a very pesimistic way to view things. As I see it, he is just trying to impress you and is still inexperienced in dating. Try to thank him for this present by being impressed and see what he does next. Then you will be able to tell for sure by yourself, according to the way he will react :)
Hope I helped.^^