I like him a lot but its not working. all i fell is guilt when im around him. i cant love or b open because i am tramatized by the devorses ive been in growing up. abusive marages my mom had. i cant trust or be romatically love anyone and i never will be able to. its me and not him, but that sounds so cliche and he wont believe that its my fault. what do i do? how do I break up w him so he can have a better girl?