... We exchanged names I checked him out, even did a backround check. (Believe me I’m paranoid) I know his family and he knows mine. I know it’s stupid but I’m in love after only five months. I’m going to meet him soon and I was wondering Is this stupid? Could this really be? I’ve never known any one who is so imperfectly perfect for me. He makes me really happy even with the distance. Now usually I'm not a supporter of online dating or even meeting people over the chat line. I've never done this before, but I spend hours and hours talking to him. He has gotten me and my quirks my mistakes, and flaws and still he doesn't seem to care. I've seen him in pictures and he has seen mine. He has even talked to a few of my family members. As a person who has been hurt before I am really skeptical about meeting him. But it has been five months, and yes we've had relationship problems and all that and still were able to get over it. I'm just a bit confused cause I'm not a young naive girl who is stupid, but I don't want to make stupid decisions. I do need advice What would be the best way to go?
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I just went through the same thing.. I met him on line, i fell in love with him, he lived in a different state, we talked for hours, sent eachother texts, had phone conversations, blah, blah... and then after like 7 months i read messages to him from another girl and he had sent her some too, and they were innapropriate because he and I agreed that we were exclusivly together.. but so I wrote him an email asking for an explanation and he bad mouthed me and blamed me for everything... Umm, anyways we're not together anymore. But all I can say to u truthfully is to believe ur intuition about him, know that ur instincts about something are always right.. If you have ANY doubts, ur having them for a reason... I didnt listen to my instincts when i should have.. I cared about him so much that I was sick for days after the break up.. but be careful, and seriously... Ur going to do what u feel is right, but the second that u feel doubt, be over and done with it... All the best of luck to u..