... problem is he is currently married but they are separated right now. 1 young child involved. I can see its a problem waiting to happen. He use to like me in College but I didn't know that then, he was shy, I've always had a crush on him except I was worried because he use to have a bunch of groupie girls around him all the time. We've been good friends all these years, always confide in each other or share our successes or losses with each other knowing we won't receive judgement. Recently he's moved back to my Neighbourhood and has reached out to chill. We have once and have set a plan to hang out again.. So more to the point.. I do not have kids, I want marriage and a family but already wasted time with someone for 4 years who had a child and I'm not sure I wanna go through that again but not everyone is the same.. Should I go for it?