... been together for more than a year now and our love is mutual and we love each other so much. Recently I asked my boyfriend if he would ever introduce me to his mother and father. He said no because his family will object to us being together. Now he tells me he can't be with me forever. I told him that I can't keep dating him if he knows he already knows we can never marry and he opposed to breaking up.I am confused because he keeps talking about being together in the near future just not long term. Please give me advice as to what I should do
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its a hard one so to speak because he can't introduce to his family because they would object it isn't a good reason not to introduce you but some relationships are like that i don't understand why he hasn't said anything before this he sounds to me like he was going to keep it going til he couldn't anymore i would just say i can't do this unless you keep hanging onto something that is short turn who knows how long that would be
My response......stop dating him!!! I understand the fact that his parents will object to your relationship. But If he truly did love you he would stand up to his parents. He would stay with you no matter what others thought. It also sounds to me like sooner or later he will dump you. The more you continue to date the harder it will be for you to let go. You can also try to talk to him and make him understand that if he is not willing to fight for your relationship then you are not willing to continue with the relationship. But if you decide to break up then stick to your word unless you feel he is starting to stand up to his parents. I know break ups are hard but time helps heal everything.