... someone or dating a guy? She knows that I like her (my crush) and we're supposed to be talking to each other to get to know one another (process). Today she was shopping around 2:20pm and at 3;16 she said she will get back with me later from going out to eat. But its been 4 hours and I still haven't heard anything from her. I don't want to think negative because of the past experience I've dealt with from a woman.
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Don't let other relationships affect you just let them make you make smart choices and take things easy...relax she needs her time. She could be going out to eat with her friends and remember she not your girlfriend. Good luck I wish you the best. I learned the hard way to not annoy people and give them space :(.
well its really possible unless she went by her self to eat i don't see that happening sounds like she is seeing someone plus she is playing games another waiting in the wings its been 4 hours sense she said she would get back to you she is stringing you along hope you can see this mabe right now you don't see it are hoping for something to happen don't think it will happen how long has she been doing this ?i would cut her lose if she was serious she would call you like she said she would
Well she being like this ever since I told her since past November. I told her I had a crush on her after her birthday which is March so its been 9 months. She talks to me different as if she's playing hard to get. I know she's a virgin and 22 years old so I thought" maybe its more challenging to ask a woman that's a virgin to date me". Also she works and goes to school which also makes her busy (first woman I met that is so busy). Maybe I have to get use to that. I had to confront her and told her how I feel about this because I have to understand lots of things from her. And she looked me in the eye saying "No I don't see nonone else because I'm too busy all the time working and going to school and when I say let's talk on the phone and we don't, its because I'm tired and I fall asleep. And I went shopping with FAM and went to dinner with them. And I like you too but we will see what will happen between us first. But for now we're coolie and we're talking to each other still". So I do away I trust and believe her more than I doubt. But this is new to me so should I let her go or just keep it going??
I didn't know it's been 9 months, make a move as her out:)
Yeah I agree with you on that. I mean I can't read her mind, but I know she told me in her past relationships 100% of the breakup were because her exs always be so busy for her and not spending any time with her. So I do my best to be around her and talking to her a lot which I'm talkative and know how to hold up a conversation. But deep inside me tells me that I'm being too clingy. But I don't know and I don't want to ask her that. But I thought about giving her space but thanks to you I won't make that mistake. And she do get annoyed easily so I will ask her what makes her annoyed so easily. I think that should be part of the process to know, help, and to accept/respect each other's differences. I think :$