... day together either working sound te house we share or cuddling on the couch watching TV or a movie. We go out together to the movies, dinner, the fair, grocery shopping or just shopping in general. We laugh and play together whenever we can. We adopted 2 dogs together and are raising chickens together. He's adopted in spirit my 2 cats. He takes care of me and feeds me food off his plate, makes meals for me, does things around the house to make me happy. He says this is our home that we built it together and that my soul will always shine there. We've crossed physical lines that go way beyond just friendship. The issue is we aren't dating and I'm in love with him. He tells me he loves me, but he's not in love with me. His heart is stuck on an ex he knows he has no future with but he still loves her so he doesn't have a heart to give me. He says he's given me everything else he has to give instead but he can't give me his heart. I talked with him one day and told him he needed to figure out what I mean to him. That I love him and care about him but that I can't keep living with him the way we do with things the way we are. I told him I was moving and gave notice and I'm staying at my moms this week to give us space. He's upset. He doesn't want me to leave. He wants us to stay the way we are but he doesn't want me to love him. It's been a year and a half that we've lived this way and I want to move on. How do I leave without losing my best friend that I love so much?
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- 3+ months ago by Wdoyle196
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- friend, roommates, friends, relationships, best friend
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thats gonna be a hard one because of the way you feel he has to get over her to see if he has you eventually he will be able to give you his heart thats how our heart deals with things hes in denial still he in time will let her go if you push this the feelings you have for him and what feelings he has will be lost forever but thats a chance he has to take and you also will have to take as well its also to bad you can't work this out
The part that killer the most is when we hang out with his sister and her friends at the bar he tells everyone there are zero prospects for marriage in his life and that he has no one in his life to shave for. He and I live te way we do but then in that one environment he makes me feel like I'm nothing to him. We aren't dating or bf/gf so I shouldn't hurt but he knows I love him. He knows I want a real future with him. Yet he says stuff like that then get made at me for being hurt by his words.
I told him he needs to figure out what I mean to him. I love him very much he knows that. He also know I would stay with him forever but not like this. I want to te married and have babies. I'm 38 I can't sit around and what while he figures himself out. I'm stay at my moms for a week to give him time and myself time to be apart while I help my mom so that he has a chance to think about what we talked about.