... marriage my dad 65 left my mum for a 35 year old and has left the country cutting off everyone my mum has now become bitter selfish and is only looking out for herself has stopped acting like a mum altogether she doesn't even call me my sister who I was very close to has stopped talking to me completely cut me out of her life for no reason my brother is so mentally and verbally abusive he only calls when he wants something total user I'm always trying to reach out to them as they are my family and I always get hurt I never thought things would be like this we wasn't the closest family but they were all I had I always hoped things would change its come to the point were I'm thinking to go it alone cut them off compleatly or do o keep trying they are the only family I have please I need some advice from
Google - I don't know what to do my mum and dad have just recently Divorced after 30 years of?
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- 3+ months ago by Sarah may
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- country, marriage, left, dad, year, bitter, cutting, mum, google, old, years
Added 3+ months ago:
It's really effecting me I'm all alone in this world I keep seeing people with there family and it gets to me but I know if I ring my mum now she would be horrible to me cut me off after a few minutes talking to her then it hurts even more coz I've reached out shall I stop contact all together please some one help me
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IWHEN YOUR parents divorce, it can seem like the end of the world, a catastrophe that generates enough misery to last forever. It often triggers a wave of shame, anger, anxiety, fear of abandonment, guilt, depression, and profound loss—even a desire for revenge. Whatever the case, the fact that your parents may have chosen to be silent or to give you only vague answers to your questions regarding the divorce does not mean they do not love you.What You Can Do
Identify your fears. Because divorce can turn your world upside down, you may find yourself worrying about things that you have no control over eg. your mothet's anger. Do not rebel and become angry and distructive. Find an adult even a teacher. you can trust and explain how you feel. I undestand you feel hurt to see your mother Be kind to your mother and avoid her anger this will pass if it does not focus on your education and keep busy..For more information please go to jw.org "online library". Also for free downloads, publications or read online. You can select the book "Young people ask, Answers that work."