My girlfriend is atleast 11weeks pregnant, it wasent planned and this is the absolute wrong time for us to bring a child into the world, she is adament that she is going to get a termination! i understand why but I feel so bad for this thing we created growing inside of her because it wasent it's choice to be created, if we was more careful it wouldnt have to go through this!! i don't know what to do! i can't convince her to keep it, but in a way i want her to because i don't know if i will be able to deal with the whole termination thing, i know it kinda sounds selfish becaue she's the one that will have to go through all the pain, but i am thinking about both of our feelings, just confued!
GIRLFRIEND PREGNANT!?
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- 3+ months ago by jgreen1989
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- child, world, girlfriend, pregnant
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I think the whole idea of a termination is a sin, I don't think you should have the choice, it is a life you would be distroying.
There are thousands of people in this world who can not have children,you could always have the child adopted if you are unable to bring it up for any reason.
This is my opinion,I know alot of people would not agree, but it's something I feel very strongly about. It's a little life and someone would bring it up if you feel you can't.
The baby inside the tummy of your girlfriend is a gift from God! Yes it wasn't planned but the truth is there is life inside her. Stop blamming each other, it cannot help to solve the problem, actually there is no problem. Take that as your inspiration, work harder, double time for the sake of your girlfiend and your baby, face the consequence, be responsible enough. Don't blame the child for the things that you do both.