I'm in a relationship where because of work we are currently living in two different cities for the time being until employment in same city opens up. My girlfriend is on very good terms with her male boss which is good, but I know they have a little more than friendly relationship and are sometimes flirting with each other. This doesn't normally bother me as I trust her, but earlier I got message "my boss wants to marry me ;) (new paragraph) I love you". We have talked about marriage but now she is telling me she loves me and in same message that her boss wants to marry her "winkwink"...

I dont know how to feel or what to make of it. Right now I'm just feeling sad and helpless as I'm in a different city unable to be face to face with my love like my boss can. Also the position of being her flirty boss with lots of money makes me even more insecure of his intentions and hers.

Please I need advice on what do to and guide on how to think about this because I love her but feels like I'm being torn apart by her relationship with her boss.