Ive been dating my girlfriend fr 3 years now and she used to be in a long term relationship before she got married . Things went sour from then on he was verbally and very physically abusive to her . So she left him and was single for a year until she met me . Things have been great since we met and everything is right besides a few things now that things are getting more serious that bother me . She has a tattoo of her ex husband that shes been getting lasered since before we met but still a little visible . She got breast implants a little after we were dating without me complaining about her breast . She is insecure about herself since the beginning an that worries me alot because of stupidity that can come with it . My concern is how did things get so bad with her ex after so many years together and then go bad after getting married especially if she got a tattoo of him and second am i really that perfect as she says i am or is it out of desperation . Not insecure about myself can honestly say im not no brad pitt and it doesnt bother me . Im happy with who i am just fearing her love and caring is loyal and true . Any opinions are welcome thanx matthew