Hi, I am writing this because I have a girl in mind, that at first, I didn't like, but now I do. Let me tell you how it all started.
During cross country she would run with me, and she would talk to me. She wasn't very popular so I tried not to act like I loved her. She was very obsessed with me at the beginning of the year. She asked me out once, but I kind of ignored it because I was nervous, and my friends don't like her. I did dance with her 2 times, but that was a while ago. Anyway, it's been a couple months now and I don't know what to do... I'm not sure if she has moved on from me or not, but she still talks to me sometimes, but not that much anymore. I still love her and I really don't know what to do.
If you could tell me what to do, that would be amazing. This is my last resort, I wouldn't know what to do after this. Please help!
Sorry for my grammar mistakes, I'm on an iPod.
Girl Troubles?
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You don't have to be nervous! She may have moved on and she may not have. It could be a rumor shes going to ask someone else out. If your honest with her she will appreciate it even if shes moved on. It may be hard but its easier to just tell her instead of letting it way you down.
That's so cute! Cross country? Good choice;) Anyways, you need to approach your friends about this matter. I mean, is she a bad influence? Make your friends give reasons why they don't like her. If it's petty things, or just a rumor, just ignore their protests. If it's quite a few rumors, and if at least one is proven true, hold back and try and get the details from her friends. I understand if you have a tied tongue, it happens more with guys than girls. Genetic make-up mostly. Get her to notice you. If you do mess it up, it will still get her attention. Don't take this in a bad way, but you should subtly stalk her. Get to know her friends, incorporate yourself into her friend group so that she gets to see you more. She'll have you on her mind more, and it might turn into something. Don't be afraid to be persistent about telling her that you'd want to hang out in a smaller group. Sorry this is so long. It's a bit personal to me. Hope I helped(:
Thanks so much! This really helped, I'll try my best. :)
Yay! If you have any more questions, just ask(:
Thanks, but I feel to nervous to say that kind of stuff to her. And my friends are would like flip if they found out about this. I want to, but its almost as I cant. if you have any other advice, please help.
i think she has moved on from me even more now, because one of her friends said that shes going to ask someone else out.... :(