Get closer to the person I like?

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I like someone and im trying to get closer to her, but everytime she hangs out or having conversation with her friends, i find it awkward and also find myself not brave enough to talk to her. Im afraid if i keep doing this, that means i push myself away from her. Im feeling bad right now and dont know what to do. I really need advice about what should i do.

P.s: im afraid she would ignore me if i talk to her while she is with her    friends.

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Ok look bro take a deep breath. You're thinking way to much. When I liked a girl i'd just simply walked up and asked for her name. When she answered I'd just reply with my name. After that i'd just say I have to go or i'm gunna be late for class  anything works. It's normal to be a bit shy but whats the worst that could happen? It's not like she's gunna scream, "EWWW!" or make fun of you for asking her name. Another good way is if you pass by her just wave your hand or say "hello". She will most likely wave back or say hi back. Talk to her like she's your best friend and try not to think about it to much. If she's with her friends just say, "excuse me, whats your name again?" or just wait until she's done talking. Be brave man the girl doesn't bite. Try not to sound scared when you're talking to her. Girls like guys with confidence. Who knows she may even like you. Try this website, their may be a good chance she's interested in you as well.     www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You

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Hey :) so basically I'm a girl and I know how girls think. Obviously haha. Look, most girls like brave guys, so it's better to confront her. Give it a shot :) try talkimg to her. Ask her out if seemed interested :) that's easy trust me :) best of luck -Jana

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Dont be shy , well you need to get her alone one day , or be more discret asking her things , or put secret messeges or talk to her in chat . Just be yourselfe , if she dosnt like you well dont worry youlle find another :)

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i'm a girl mabye i could help a guy like me once i felt awkword and said ewwwww but not at him because he was new so now we are just friends but i feel awkword still maybe she will too but she'll get over it and than you guys maybe will be friends i didn't ignore him he talked to me in front of my friends they didn't care i'm over it

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please dont waste ur time

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I have this same issue with a guy. I've technically known him for three years, cause my sister always talked about him to me and his sister apparently talked about me to him, our sisters are best friends, but I only talk to him in two of the classes I have with him, and don't really text him. There is a Sadie Hawkins winter formal coming up, and my sister grabbed both of us after school one day and was like "You should go with him!" He was like "Haha if no one else asks me" I was like "wtf" then he said haha jk and walked away, he likes to screw with me idk why. I asked him who he was going with to the dance and he said, "I don't know if the girl I want to go with is even going, so I'm going with my friend" I've been asking him who for a long time and he refuses to tell me, It's so awkward.. I don't know if we are even friends or not he always says I have such stupid games on my IPad (for school) and that I need to stop. He also always tells me he likes my sister better, and normally ignores me in the halls. This is such a rant sorry.

Get closer to the person I like?

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