I dated my ex boyfriend for almost three years but we broke up because of constant fights. We loved each other but we were too different, i felt he did not understand me and he felt I did not understand him either. Eventually he felt he could never make me happy and i felt the same way and i broke it off. And he agreed it was for the best.
I was happy to move on with my life without him but he wanted to be friends . I refused all the time, but he insisted that he could not live without me. It was really hard because i still loved him and instead of getting over him the constant communication made me love him more.
Since i couldnt be friends with him i asked him to be my friend with benefit. He happily agreed, he hadnt kissed or slept with anyone else since the breakup and I hadnt too.
Day one of friends with benefits turned out a disastor, both our feelings came flooding back and in the morning we decided that it was not possible to be friends with benefits.
We discussed about trying to get back together...he said that we keep giving each other chances but we do the same thing. nothing changes, we make up and breakup again.
I told him I wanted him back and he said all he needs is one solid reason for us to get back together.He loves me, and says he is shocked that a girl like me could even love a guy like him. he said all he needs is assurance that this time things wil l actually change.Please help....what do i say or do?how do i convince him without seemly clingly becausing bugging him will only drive him away.
Now im stuck..donno what to say or do. I cant bug him to get back together because it will only drive him further ?what do i do to get him
