I met this guy on the Internet over a month ago. In the beginning we agreed to be friends with benefits which worked for both of us. Things were going really well and he is my perfect match sexually and we see each other a lot. I've met his best friend and he's gonna meet my friends soon. The other day he hadn't text me for a few days so I asked if everything was okay and he text me back "I love you lol x" And I said "really? Why have you been ignoring me then?". Then he said "I'm not you're my girl x" which avoids the question totally. I feel like I'm falling for him so I wanna find out how he feels without ruining what we have. Help!
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Finding love on the Internet is a high risk crap shoot at best. You both were looking for sex and you found it. it is what it is, love comes with butterfly's in the pit of your tummy, blush's when you see him, three hour phone conversations, lost appetites..ect,ect.......
He might care for you and like you BUT I highly doubt there is love involved. This is the pitfall for friends with benefits - usually someone gets hurt. If you are willing to continue the way it is then fine but if you want more I suggest you find someone else don't don't start as "friends with benefits"
..its quiet hard.. maybe he loves you.. or maybe not.. since both of you started with that kind of situation.. if im going to let my instict literally, ill go for the answer that "HE LOVES YOU".. he will not text you that way if he doesnt love you.. maybe he ignores you becauese he wanted to be sure of his feelings..
i hope my answer could help you.. goodluck.. you can pass through this..