My sister and I are VERY close. We are close in age and do everything together and have for the most part the same friend group. We made a new friend recently and have hung out with her many times before together. Today, I was with that friend and she invited me over to spend the night. I just assumed she meant my sister and I both. All my other friends have always invited both my sister and I. I haven't told my sister about it and she was excited, but then later I found out our friend only wanted me over and not my sister..I haven't said anything to my sister yet. I'm not sure what to do because I don't want to hurt my sisters feelings, but I don't want my friend to feel obligated to have my sister over too. Any ideas at what to do?
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I've run into this problem in the past with three of my friends who are triplets. For the most part we always hung out together, but occasionally we would hang out separately. It's probably best to let your sister know about the sleepover, and I'm sure your friend means nothing wrong about this and doesn't want to cause any issues. After the sleepover just let your friend know that you and your sister are very close and I'm sure she'll understand.